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Approaches to prayer…an opportunity to get honest?
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Praying. How should we approach it? We all know we should do it, but do we really know why we should do it? Can we really change things through prayer? Or is just Christians trying to control events and circumstances in their favour? Could it actually be an opportunity for God to change us?

How do you approach prayer? What’s its purpose?

If you have seen the Brazilian football team then you have probably seen them praying. They have been interviewed saying that God helps them because they are Christians. So does this mean that God supports Brazil? What if the two teams playing each other are believers and both pray?

Or what about exam time? The invigilator utters those dreaded words: ‘Stop writing and pens down’. You hand in the exam paper and pray to God that your grades will be good enough or that the answers you have given will have been the correct ones.

Or what about when you are stressed? Are you the kind of person who mostly prays the ‘help!’ prayers or prays only when things aren’t going your way? Do you approach the Almighty only when you’re stressed out, or keep away because you are stressed out?

The question is: when do you pray and what do you pray for? How you view your conversations with God will inform what you think prayer is and what your expectations are.

Of course we can come to God with all sorts of prayer and petitions. There is nothing we can’t pray about; but what’s our motivation? Do we come to God with a special coded language, praying what we think he wants to hear, rather than what we’re truly experiencing? Or are we praying to see God’s will or our will be done? It’s probably impossible to pray without our prayers being influenced by our own agendas and expectations of what God should do.

However, perhaps there’s another side to prayer, which isn’t just about what outcome God can bring. Perhaps prayer is an opportunity to submit our lives and agendas to God; an opportunity to be honest with God about the issues we’re facing in our lives and express our emotions. And when we allow ourselves to be shaped by God, perhaps we find that some of our agendas start to change…
To Think About…

In the Bible, there are all sorts of passages showing how different people prayed. They all demonstrate people experiencing different aspects of life and emotion; they all used prayer differently to express their experiences to God.

Take the Psalms for example. They’re full of people being honest with God about their experiences.

Psalm 13 expresses the Psalmist’s desperation: ‘How long, O LORD ? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me? How long must I wrestle with my thoughts and every day have sorrow in my heart?

Psalm 51 describes the shame David felt after his affair with Bathsheba: ‘Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast Spirit within me’…

Psalm 73 expresses a sense of injustice, as the Psalmist observes, ‘Surely God is good to Israel, to those who are pure in heart. But as for me, my feet had almost slipped ….. For I envied the arrogant when I saw the prosperity of the wicked’.

Or what about the incredible sense of awe, as the author of Psalm 119 is blown away by Gods love?

We need to remember that we can pray about anything – from world peace to a piece of homework, but we also need to see prayer as an opportunity to be honest with God and let him shape us more to his likeness.
For further thought

Check out the following passages for other ideas and approaches to prayer…

Genesis 32:24-31
Genesis 18:20-33
Psalm 13
Psalm 23
Psalm 42
Psalm 51
Psalm 73
Psalm 119
Job Chapter 38
2Corinthians 12:7-10
Paul’s Prayer – thorn in the flesh

John 17:21-26
Jesus own prayer

Luke 11:1-4
The Lords prayer

Romans 8:26-27
Spirit intercedes with groans…

Hebrews 7:25
Jesus intercedes with the Father
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