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Following on from our look at prayer last week, here are a few suggestions for how you might turn your conversations with God from simple lists of demands to something deeper, more profound and ultimately, even life-changing.
In the West our view of prayer is often one of supplication: we come to God when things in the world or our lives are wrong and need fixing, or when we want (or think) that we need something. Eastern views on prayer are quite different. There, speaking out thoughts and desires to God is often more a process of letting go, acknowledging that God is sovereign and is with us and loves us. It’s a process of bending to His will, lifting our desires and expressing our own innermost thoughts while acknowledging that we don’t control God. It’s not about a lack of faith – in fact, quite the opposite. It’s saying that God, even if this situation doesn’t work out how I think it should, you are God, I love you and, even if I lose my life, I still choose to follow you.
Have a good long chat to a friend. Pull up and armchair and pour out a coffee before talking to them about what is going on in your life; your thoughts, dreams, visions, concerns, worries, hurts as well as the things that make you glad. Simply finish your time together committing the things you’ve expressed to God, asking that you would understand your place in the world and his love and delight in you.
Be still and know that God is God. Is it any wonder we struggle to hear what God might be saying to us at any one time when most of our day is filled with noise? We’re addicted to stimulation – be that spending time on the internet, chatting on MSN, reading, watching television, listening to music, talking with others, eating or being on the phone. There’s nothing wrong with any of these things but sometimes our life is only filled with them and so taking a quiet walk will often quieten the noise so that we can, at last, be still.
Pray in all situations. This is a habit that needs building – so often we kid ourselves that God isn’t concerned with the day-to-day minutiae of our lives so that in the end we find we have stopped talking to Him about even the bigger things in our lives. Praying in all times and situations is not about constantly demanding things of God like an annoying child tugging at their parents arm. Rather, it is a way to acknowledge God in all of our lives, to remind ourselves of him and his presence in all of life and to put our thoughts under his authority.
Mess with your expectations of when and how to pray. We’re used to praying at the end of a Small Group or Bible Study session, or at the end of a service at Church. But what about praying after you’ve watched a film that has revealed truth to you in some way? Or thanking God at the end of an incredible concert for his gift of music and musicianship and for the performers that managed to tap into something beautiful. What about praying with a friend during the tea and coffee break after church? Make a concerted effort to change your views on prayer - breaking it out of the boxes church puts it into so that our whole lives become a dialogue with God and a search for his truth and will.
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